1. Never ever panic or get depressed or get desperate over anything. Just have full faith in God and relax. Whatever happens is with the will of God and whatever happens is for good only.
2. Past is gone and it’s over, you cannot do anything about it, you cannot change it. Thinking about the past (whether good or bad) will just make you feel sad. If the past was good, you will be sad thinking that the present is not like that. If the past was bad, you will be sad thinking why that happened. So thinking and pondering about the past is just a waste of precious time that is given to us in the form of present.
Future is uncertain. Things might happen as per plan or things might not happen as per plan. You can never ever be sure of what is in store for you in future. Thus, thinking, worrying or fearing about how your future will be is also a waste of precious time that is given to us.
Your primary focus should always be present. Present is a God’s gift given that is given to us. Present is the only time when you can do something, change something, give your best efforts to achieve what you want to. If you focus on the present, you will give your 100% effort towards it. If you put 100% effort towards the present, the result can either be success or failure. If it’s a success, you will be happy. If it’s a failure, you will not be sad because you had done the best what you could have. Focusing on present makes the present worth living and enjoyable which then converts into your past and future as well.
3. Have a goal assigned to you every day. During the day work towards achieving that goal i.e. put efforts that will make you reach near to your goal or even accomplish that goal. This will give you a purpose in life. This will also give you motivation to work and also a sense of achievement once you actually achieve that goal.
Thursday, May 19, 2011
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